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When a man I loved was found guilty of a misdemeanor crime several years ago, I didn't know what to do. I was beside myself with worry as the sentencing date bounced from month to month - the course of his life hanging in the balance as we waited for word. Finally that time came and in a few quick words from the judge he was sent to jail for six months in a provincial prison here in Ontario, Canada. He lost his job. His family didn't know how to react. And I had to step in and take charge of his life to keep some semblance of security and balance in tact. It drained me of energy. It drained me of strength and faith and hope. I spoke to him every day on the phone, accumulating thousands of dollars in long-distance phone bills, which I paid for the sake of this man's sanity as he sat in total boredom, day after day, for a crime he had allegedly committed 18 years ago. This was injustice, my friends. But our persistence strengthened us, held us together, kept us both sane in an otherwise insane ordeal. And then it passed. And there was joy again after a long struggle to rebuild what had been lost. I offer this glimpse into my personal past (and it is only just a glimpse at a magnitude of emotion and trauma he and I experienced in that time) because I want to convey to you the reason I help John Small with this site every day. I help him because I have been in the shoes of Alexis Stewart. I have been in the shoes of a person who feels helpless as they watch someone they love endure month after month of finger-pointing, villification, humiliation and embarrassment - a person you love, accused of criminal activity when the facts in the case are either so murky or so trivial that you wonder why the world allows this to happen. You watch them, helpless, as they lose money, respect, friends and colleagues. And it breaks your heart. My faith in justice wained terribly during that year of turmoil and disbelief in our lives. My cynicism grew to magnificent proportions. When I first heard news of the Martha Stewart investigation, which ironically broke as the sentence of the man I loved was coming to an end, I knew I had to be there for her. I intrinsically understood what she and her family were going through - because I had been there myself. Martha's magazines and show had helped to ground me during my difficult struggle and brought welcome beauty to my life. I had to repay her somehow for the light she brought to my life when life seemed so dark. In a state of helplessness in my own life, I wrote to John and offered to help him for free because I wanted to lend my voice to the cause of his site, lending my insight and strength regarding something that reeked of injustice and unfairness right from the start. John agreed and today, over a year later, I am a staff member and we enjoy a great working relationship full of productive ideas. I used the anger I had felt in my own set of injustices to defend a person who had not yet been charged but was being treated like a criminal all the same, hoping that it would make a difference, praying that people would understand. I think you have understood brilliantly as the success of this site and its creator have demonstrated. You yourselves have proven so unwavering and kind, which I thank you for. And now, friends and readers, it is time to understand that Martha and her family face a tremendous obstacle - one that will test the resolve of her company, its shareholders, its employees and its admirers. It's time for us to be stronger than we've ever been - to not give up on Martha or her company. We are its lifeforce, its breath, its heartbeat. Martha is its vision. We cannot let this magnificent empire die a slow death. Please read John Small's five-step program to help save Martha and her corporation. Please understand that bad things happen to good people all the time and that Martha will survive. She is a survivor unlike any I have known so don't give up hope, no matter what happens. And please understand that I am here - and will always be here - because I know what it's like to see someone you love mired by the law, to see them tested at every turn, taken to the breaking point only to emerge stronger. I am here because I have faith that Martha can grow and build from here, no matter how dark these times may appear. Always remember - Martha's work is the greatest reflection of her soul. And her work, my friends, is so very, very excellent.
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